The First Kiss - How to Get There Smoothly

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Sometimes it can be a problem knowing just when and how to go for that first opening kiss.

A lot of guys get the timing wrong and ruin the moment. Or they make their move just as she turns her head, and finish up planting a pair of lips on her ear.

Not to worry. Here's a strategy that NEVER fails. The key is to subtly let her know that you're thinking about kissing her. This gives HER the opportunity of thinking about being kissed. And once she starts thinking about being kissed, you're pretty much there.

How do you do this? Simple. Let your eyes momentarily look at her lips -- and be sure she sees you doing this.

Start by making a simple movement which allows you to touch her and gets your head within striking distance. You might, for example, lightly reach out and run your fingers through her hair. At the same time you could say something about how soft and silky her hair is (in your sexiest voice).

Watch her reaction. If she doesn't move away, you're ready for the next step. Gaze romantically (or lustfully if you prefer) into her eyes while you keep talking. Then look down from her eyes to her mouth and back again a couple of times -- and be sure she knows what you're looking at.

Your glances will let her know what's going through your mind, so your move won't be unexpected. And it gives her a chance to take up the offer or not.

If she doesn't move away, move your head in and gently kiss her. Make the first one soft. Don't rush at it as though you're trying to give mouth-to-mouth to a drowned person (unless the lustful look is paying off).

If she does move away, neither of you has lost face. But don't take it as a rejection. She may simply want you to do a little more work.

Readers of The Master Seducer's Handbook will know I'm a fanatical devotee of Milton H Erickson MD, the father of modern hypnotherapy and one of the godfathers of NLP.

Milton once said (in his cutely antiquated style), "You don't ask a girl for a kiss, but in her presence you just gaze thoughtfully at the mistletoe. You are just being thoughtful. She gets the idea, and she starts thinking about the kiss."

Same thing, actually, when you think about it.

John Cliff is a Certified NLP Trainer and Master Practitioner, and author of the renowned Master Seducer's Handbook. Check out http://SmoothSeduction.com and learn how you can seduce any woman you want, anywhere, anytime.

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KISS Principle

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You have probably heard about the KISS principle, it simply means Keep It Simple Stupid. Nothing is farther from the truth when it comes to writing books. It is especially true for How to style books and certainly anything has to do with training. The general run besides simplicity is to write for the grade eight to grade ten levels for all audiences. When I was doing writing for a large corporation, the materials were to be read by the top executives. I had to be particularly careful to get to the point and put it in simple language. It was not because the executives could not read, it was they did not have time to absorb more than a few lines and get the point of the communication.

Most people do not take time to absorb technical writing unless it is part of their job or they are in the world of academics. I like to find books that are written so anyone can understand what is being said and if it is a training manual, they will be able to put the topic to immediate use. When you write, find out who your audience is and then try to write for that audience. Leave your "methodologies" out of the text unless someone else is doing a research project with you and you want them to know you have a large technical vocabulary.

Any book should flow from one topic to another. Even chapters should make some sense for order. Often books are dealing with complex subjects that need to be broken down in a manner than is continuous. The chapters in this book were written as twenty separate areas and although some of them are related, most are not. This was done by design.

Bette Daoust, Ph.D. is a speaker, author (over 170 books, articles, and publications), and consultant. She has provided marketing, sales, business development and training expertise for companies such as Peet's Coffee & Tea, Varian Medical Systems, Accenture, Avaya, Cisco Systems to name a few. Dr. Daoust has also done extensive work with small businesses in developing their marketing, training, and operational plans. You may contact Dr. Daoust at http://bizmechanix.com/. You may also view her latest publications at http://blueprintbooks.com/. Dr. Daoust also writes for the National Networker http://www.thenationalnetworker.com/.

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French Kiss 101- Learning How to French Kiss

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Kissing is one of the best ways to show affection to a loved one. It is great way to start and end the day being kissed passionately. This is also the key in maintaining an intimate relationship. This is why learning how to French kiss is something very important to people who have not experienced it yet.

The French Kiss

There are different kinds of kisses that people will share. There is the kiss on the cheek that is quite common in most communities. People also do the Eskimo kisses. The air kiss is also one way of showing you care to friends.

Learning how to French kiss is a more intimate gesture. This is something that you can only share with your love one. This is not to be taken lightly. The French kiss happens the moment the mouth of two persons touch, involving some tongue action. The tongue moves in and out of the mouth as the partners share the intimate moment.

It is very important learning how to French kiss well because it will tell a lot about the sexual compatibility of the partners. It can also make or break a relationship. It is difficult to get kissed again when the French kiss is done very badly. Thus, learning how to French kiss will help a lot.

Learning How to French Kiss

Keep in mind that learning how to French kiss will not come easily if you merely think of how the tongue moves. They say that it is even difficult to practice on this one. However you can keep in mind a few tips that will help you prepare for your real French kiss.

1. Practice Alone

Some people try practicing alone when learning how to French kiss. This will not equip you with the necessary experience. Some even find this embarrassing. However, it can be helpful in preparing yourself for that moment.

2. Ask Your Partner

It is best to ask your partner or love one. Tell him or her that you have not really done this yet. This can be one way for the two of you to explore things together or your partner can lead you throughout. By doing this, you can test the waters in learning how to French kiss without the worries that your partner might think of you as a complete failure.

3. The Element of Love

Keep in mind that the French kiss is a passionate act. You cannot expect learning how to French kiss successfully unless you feel love and affection to the partner. Sharing a kiss with tongue action requires giving yourself up to a certain extent. Your partner will be able to tell on how much you can give through the kiss. Thus, do not expect to learn how to French kiss easily if you or your partner do not feel any love chemistry.

4. Read Each Other

Learning how to French kiss also involves some rhythm and synchrony. You and your partner have to read each other as you kiss. This means reading the body language to know what to do. For example, you cannot constantly do the tongue action. You have to feel if your partner wants to kiss your lips, then you stick with that. Once he or she moves closer then you can read this as a desire to share a French kiss.

5. Relax and Enjoy

Finally, you have to relax and enjoy this intimate moment. You might be scared on how you will do on your French kiss. However, you cannot keep thinking of such things or else you might hold back. You have to be comfortable to be able to give a good kiss. Just go with the flow of your feelings and desire.

Learning how to French kiss is an art. It is a good thing to learn as you share this passionate moment with your love one. Nothing compares to having that perfect French kiss.

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Gerry Restrivera writes informative articles on various subjects including French Kiss 101: Learning How to French Kiss. You are allowed to publish this article in its entirety provided that author’s name, bio and website links must remain intact and included with every reproduction.

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